Andy Irwin’s Fairfax Visit

Last Saturday night, international rogue and nationally renowned storyteller Andy Offutt Irwin, stopped by The Auld Shebeen in Fairfax, VA to sing some songs, quote some poetry, whistle a tune or two, and do some storytelling on our stage.

The storytelling show/extravaganza was hosted by Jessica Robinson, who shared a story about her husband and kids while they tried to listen patiently from the audience, but mostly squirmed around and shouted things – especially her husband.


Once Jessica had completed the opening act, effectively lulling her son to sleep, Andy took the stage and ran. He sang songs about a cyclops, another about a protozoa. He quoted Robert Frost and Kurt Vonnegut. He whistled and produced sound effects. And he told some stories.

Here is a song about storytelling and story listening called Tarry Here. I hope you will tarry long enough to listen through the song and the rest of the videos.

Here’s a story with a little of Andy’s Aunt Marguerite and a little about a young man named Chaz, in which Andy gives us back the stars.

And here’s a song about a Cyclops that you will not be able to get out of your head. My gift to you from Andy.

I love true, personal storytelling. I started Better Said Than Done to bring the art of personal narrative to Northern Virginia. But I also love these interludes, these visits from storytellers who sing and whistle and lie. It’s great to get to see the full range of the art of storytelling. And Andy brought it all with him, to our our little stage in the City of Fairfax.

We return from fantasy and song to our usual fare of true, personal storytelling on Friday, September 27th, at The Auld Shebeen, with “Old School: stories of tradition, education, and age.”
Details and advance entry here.

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Storyteller Andy Offutt Irwin in Fairfax

Join Better Said Than Done on September 14, 2019 at The Auld Shebeen in Fairfax, VA for a very special storytelling event with internationally renowned storyteller ANDY OFFUTT IRWIN!

There are too many awesome credits to list here, so, check out Andy’s full bio to try to grasp his accomplishments.

Here are a few things you should know about Mr. Andy Offutt Irwin:
Andy has been a Guest Artist at La Guardia High School of Art, Music, and Performing Arts in New York (The “FAME!” School); a Keynote Speaker/Performer at the Library of Congress-Virburnum Foundation Conference on Family Literacy; a Guest Writer Performer with the Georgia Tech Glee Club; and a guest composer with the Amherst College Men’s Double Quartet.

Andy has held a few almost-real-jobs that include: Artist-In-Residence in Theatre at Emory University’s Oxford College from 1991 to 2007. (He continues serving at Oxford as Artist-in-Just-Passing-Through). Once upon a time, Andy spent five years as a performer, writer, and director for SAK Theatre at Walt Disney World.

Andy is the recipient of many awards, but he is tickled as can be to have been patted on the head by his peers as they bestowed upon him the Oracle 2013 Circle of Excellence from the National Storytelling Network.

Also, when he gets around to buying a frame he will hang upon his wall:
a Special Congressional Recognition – For outstanding and invaluable service to the community – from Rep. John Lewis.

Andy lives in the town where he grew up –
which is the same town where his mama grew up, which is the same town where his mama’s mama grew up, which is the same town where his mama’s mama’s mama grew up, which is the same town where his his mama’s mama’s mama’s mama grew up – Covington, Georgia.

And he’ll be in Fairfax, Virginia on September 14th!
at
The Auld Shebeen (Downstairs – Entrance on North St.)
3971 Chain Bridge Rd., Fairfax, VA 22030
6:00PM Doors Open/7:00PM Show
Adults $15 at the Door (Cash Preferred)/$12 Advance Entry Below
Kids (7yo – 14yo) $7 at the Door (Cash Preferred)/$5 Advance Entry Below
Kids 6 and under get in free
Advance sales end at noon the day of the show
Adult Entry Here:




Kid’s Entry Here:





No actual tickets are delivered. Upon purchasing entry your name will be added to the door list.

PLEASE NOTE: Though this is a family friendly show, the entertainment is planned for adults. Andy spent many years working for Disney and kids seem to like him, but we assume the audience will be made up mostly of grown-ups.

Find out more information on our upcoming storytelling shows here.

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Other People’s Storytelling Show

For the hottest month’s of summer, we decided to conserve energy and combine the July and August storytelling shows into one. On August 3, 2019, we gathered our community at The Auld Shebeen in Fairfax to listen to “Other People’s Stories.”

Sandra Hull was our mistress of ceremonies, keeping the audience informed and the storytellers in line!

Though most Better Said Than Done storytelling shows feature true, personal stories, for “Other People’s Stories,” we let the storytellers veer away from the personal, and share stories they were only tangentially part of, stories they heard, or stories about other people. Videos of the stories can be found by clicking the links under each storyteller’s photo.

Catherine Calvin, for example, shared an epic fart story. Don’t worry, she did not share the fart. In fact, she wasn’t even the one who produced it in the story but, according to her, she wouldn’t mind if you thought she was.
Watch Catherine Calvin’s story here.

Les Schaffer told a story about his grandpa’s meeting with Pancho Villa, anti-Semitism, and what it means to stand up for yourself.
Watch Les Schaffer’s story here.

Jay Johnson’s story was about a wonderful woman who was like her second mom, when she was growing up in the segregated South. Watch through to the end to find out that, surprise, you might have heard of this wonderful woman she’s speaking about.
Watch Jay Johnson’s story here.

Zach Wilks made us all laugh, and then made us all cry, with a beautiful story about the stories he learned from his parents.
Watch Zach Wilks’ story here.

Miriam Nadel’s story was about a hoax, or perhaps not. It depends on what you believe.
Watch Miriam Nadel’s story here, and decide for yourself.

Bill Weech told a tale about the long line of proud Scots he is descended from, and how their stubbornness has, or has not, influenced his own life.
Watch Bill Weech’s story here.

Barbara Fornoff shared a story about the beginnings of her career as a counselor and how story has been such a central part of her practice.
Watch Barbara Fornoff’s story here.

Geraldine Buckley’s story took us all the way to the UK, and landed us on Denmark Street, with a story of romance, intrigue and the milkman.
Watch Geraldine Buckley’s story here.

“Other People’s Stories” was an example of the many times that we here at Better Said Than Done have experimented with format. If this fantastic show was any indication – and if the feedback I got from our enthusiastic audience was sincere – then we are definitely going to have to repeat the theme, or concept. The storytelling community has spoken. They like hearing other people’s stories. We’ll put on our active listening ears to prepare for when this show comes back again. In the meantime, enjoy actively listening to all of the night’s wonderful storytellers.

We are taking the rest of August off – to rest up for a huge September. You do not want to miss any of the 3 shows we’ve got!

First, join hostess with the mostess Jessica Robinson and mouth watering, um, sorry, I meant to say, mouth whistling wonder Andy Offutt Irwin on September 14th for a special show with this Disney-certified, 27ish time Jonesborough graduated, fantastic storyteller. Advance tickets – for kids and adults – on sale now.

September 21st is the night of our next experiment – we’re hosting an open mic at ArtSpace in Herndon, VA. Come and listen, or sign up to share your own personal, true story, approximately 7 minutes long. Contact stories (at) bettersaidthandone (dot) com to sign up to tell, or with questions.

And we end the month with a DIFFERENT NIGHT. That’s right, we’re returning to The Auld Shebeen on FRIDAY, September 27, 2019 with “Old School: stories of education, tradition, and age.” Hosted by storyteller Sufian Zhemukhov, who has already promised to wear Bill Weech’s kilt.

My heartfelt wishes for peace and love for the rest of the summer and, perhaps, beyond.

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Gun Violence and Community

Today we are grieving and our hearts go out to the community of…
I’ll leave that blank. When you read this, who knows what community will have just been devastated by gun violence.

Saturday night, I got the news about El Paso, TX. Sunday morning, I woke to the news about Dayton, OH. In between learning about the two tragic events, I sat in our storytelling show and listened to true stories, authentic stories, personal stories.

As Zach Wilks told how much his parents’ stories shaped the man he became, I could see the love passed to him through those stories. As Jay Johnson talked about the America she grew up in, growing up black in the segregated South, I imagined this child in a community filled with love, surrounded by so many people filled with hate. As Les Schaffer revealed that he’d been called a Jew Devil in the not too deep South of Virginia, not that long ago, it was clear how his experiences were not so very different from Jay’s. As Barbara Fornoff explained how becoming a counselor taught her to listen, and how listening taught her to be better at caring for people – all people, not just her clients – I felt the healing power of story. As each new storyteller took the stage and spoke, our audience, our community, grew closer, learned to listen, to care more.

Hatred will always exist, as will violence. But it is harder to hate someone we feel we know. It is harder to hate when we feel loved.

I love our storytelling community. I wish all people who felt unloved – or who were filled with hatred, anger, hopelessness – could find a loving community to embrace, one that would embrace them, listen to their stories, share their own stories with them, learn to understand each other, and grow together. Grow in story, grow in love, and grow in community.

Storytelling is not the solution to gun violence. Community is part of the solution. Stories are part of what grows a community, strengthens a community and opens a community to all of us. When we are all us together, there is no more them. If we could learn to be – grow to be – part of one community, one people, then, perhaps, love would conquer hate.

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Smoking Gun Storytelling Show

At the end of our latest storytelling night, I had multiple audience members approach me and say, “‘Smoking Gun: stories of crime, mystery and obvious answers,’ was the best storytelling show yet.” Okay, in truth, none of them quoted the title when giving praise, but I had to slip it in somewhere. As Founder of Better Said Than Done, I cannot single out a show to say this one was the best, but I have no problem agreeing that this was one of the best storytelling shows yet.

Host Jack Scheer brought his usual lovable presence, doing a great job of introducing the night’s storytellers with humor, and interjecting information about our upcoming shows and workshops without dragging down the pace of the show.

I cannot say this enough – watching the videos is not the same as being in the audience. Storytelling is a shared experience. A community experience. Look how much fun these people are having!


But, if you weren’t there at our last storytelling show, you are going to want to watch videos of this top notch group of storytellers. Click on the links below to watch, and you will almost get to feel like you were there. Or just listen to audio of the videos and it will be like listening to the Better Said Than Done podcast that we haven’t yet gotten around to producing!
First up, storyteller Sarah Snyder, sharing a true, personal narrative about being a 911 call operator.
Author, blogger, and storyteller Richard Barr shared a true story about a mysterious crime.
Storyteller Jessica Robinson shared a story about Brett Kavanaugh and his effect on another storytelling show.
First Time Storyteller John Howell shared a true, personal story about a boy, a gun, and fathers and sons.
A lot of elements go into making a great storytelling show. One of the most important is the audience. Storytelling is an interactive art. We love our community – the storytellers, and the story participants!
Bill Weech returned to our stage for the second time with a story about a crime, and the memory of that crime.
Storyteller Denise Bennett shared her own gun story involving a crime, a gun, and someone’s son.
Better Said Than Done’s resident Circassian Muslim storyteller Sufian Zhemukhov, shared a story about reaching across the gun aisle to find a turkey.
Zach Wilks ended the show on a high note, like a really high note. Like federal crime levels of high.
The fantastic cast of Better Said Than Done’s “Smoking Gun” storytelling show taking a bow, sort of.

Miss this last show? Don’t miss the next! Join us on August 3rd for “Other People’s Stories.” Find our upcoming shows here, and, as always, purchase advance, discount entry up until 12pm the day of the show!
Want to take a workshop? Jessica Robinson’s next storytelling workshop is THIS Sunday. Read more and register here. Or find the next workshop by Jessica or Jack Scheer.

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Storyteller Spotlight: Denise Bennett

Denise Bennett is an award winning storyteller and musician. Her true story that she will be telling at June’s Better Said Than Done storytelling show, “Smoking Gun,” won second place in National Storytelling Festival Slam in 2018. She is also a Virginia champion liar, a retirement community chaplain, and published writer.

Watch a video of Denise’s storytelling here.

Read more about Denise here.
Follow Denise on Facebook here.

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Smoking Gun: stories of crime, mysteries and obvious answers

The Auld Shebeen (DOWNSTAIRS)

3971 Chain Bridge Rd., Fairfax, VA 22030

June 29, 2019

6:00 PM Doors Open/7:00 PM Show

Full drink and dinner menu available for purchase

Seating is on a first come, first served basis

$15 at the Door (Cash Preferred)

$12 Advance Sales at bettersaidthandone.com/storytelling-shows/

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8 Year Anniversary Storytelling Show Success

Over the last 8 years, you’ve heard me say (or read me write/right) that “this last storytelling show was great.” I say it a lot because, luckily for me and Better Said Than Done’s audiences, it is usually true. For our 8 year anniversary storytelling show, I’m afraid I’m going to have to say it again. Our May 25th storytelling show was great. It was a fantastic show and a wonderful way to celebrate 8 years of true, personal storytelling in Northern Virginia.

The show’s success was due to the 8 fabulous storytellers, the enthusiastic audience, and the awesome staff at The Auld Shebeen in Fairfax, VA. And I’ll pat myself on the back a little for being the hostess with the mostess. (And for being a great talent recruiter!)

Each storyteller brought their A game. Lucky for you, you get to watch videos of their stories, because they are all worth watching (again – or for the first, second and third times)!

A regular rock star, Alison kicked off the night with a story about being a kick ass teacher. Watch her nail it here.

Bill Weech joined our stage for the first time and, after delivering a heart warming story about becoming a dad, will forever be welcome in our community of storytellers. Watch Bill not leaving it to Beaver here.

Miriam Nadel is, and always has been, a true woman of valor. Watch her video to find out where it all began.

Nick Baskerville’s story took us all the way to Germany. Nick might not like beer, but watch this story to find out why we all love Nick!

I don’t want to say too much about Jack Scheer’s May 25th story. I can tell you that it does not answer the ultimate question of the universe, but does include some really important advice like, “Don’t Panic.” Grab a towel and watch Jack’s story here.

Cyndi’s honest account about a choice no woman wants to make, but that, thankfully, we still have the right to make. Watch Cyndi’s personal story here.

As host, occasionally a story pops in to my head and I decide to let it out. In this case, I thought, maybe I’ll explain to the audience why people from NJ sometimes come across as a little bit, um, well, like we’re from NJ. Watch Jessica Robinson explain Jersey here.

Sufian Zhemukhov, on the other hand, explains a bit about what it’s like to be from Russia. Not so much with love. Watch Sufian Z’s story.

Len Kruger ended the night of true, personal storytelling with style. Or maybe, without. Watch his story here and decide for yourself.

I founded Better Said Than Done 8 years ago to bring the art of true, personal storytelling to Northern Virginia. I am proud to say that we have not only brought this art form to Fairfax, but we have grown a community of storytellers and story listeners. I know my life is better because of having these people in it. I’d like to think our local community is better for it as well.

Thank you to the many people who have helped to grow and develop our storytelling community these past 8 years. And for those who have yet to get involved, come to a show. Hear us. And one day soon, we hope to hear you.

Our next storytelling show is “Smoking Gun: stories of crime, mystery, and obvious answers.” Join us at The Auld Shebeen in City of Fairfax, VA on June 29th for more true, personal storytelling.

Information and pre-sales here.

We have 2 storytelling workshops this summer – one in June and one in July. Read about and register for our half day storytelling workshops here.

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Storyteller Spotlight: Jessica Robinson


Jessica Robinson is the founder of Better Said Than Done, Northern Virginia’s premiere storytelling troupe. In addition to performing at Exchange Place at the National Storytelling Festival in Jonesborough, TN in 2018, Jessica has performed stories for Story District, Tales in the Village, The Grapevine, Stories in the Round, Perfect Liars Club and GMU’s Fall for the Book Festival, and at such venues as Jammin’ Java, Epicure Café, The Auld Shebeen, Town DanceBoutique, The Atlas Theater, Dance Place, the National Women’s Equality Museum, the City of Fairfax Public Library, and on the National Mall. Her short stories have been published in the anthology Sucker for Love, the anthology Roar: True Tales of Women Warriors, as well as The Northern Virginia Review. She is the author of the urban fantasy novel Caged, published in 2016. Jessica has led storytelling workshops for INOVA Fairfax Hospital, AHRQ, and The World Bank, as well as for many individual storytellers in her classroom.

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Crazy 8s: 8 stories, 8 minutes each

The Auld Shebeen (DOWNSTAIRS)

3971 Chain Bridge Rd., Fairfax, VA 22030

May 25, 2019

6:00 PM Doors Open/7:00 PM Show

Full drink and dinner menu available for purchase

Seating is on a first come, first served basis

$15 at the Door (Cash Preferred)

$12 Advance Tickets at bettersaidthandone.com/storytelling-shows/

 

JESSICA’S NEXT HALF DAY STORYTELLING WORKSHOP
July 14, 2019
1pm – 5pm
Fairfax, VA
Details and Registration here

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Storyteller Spotlight: Bill Weech

For our 8 year anniversary show, we wanted to continue the tradition of bringing new storytellers to the stage – first time storytellers. Bill Weech will be joining the Better Said Than Done stage for the first time for our 8 Year Anniversary storytelling show on May 25th. Welcome to our community, Bill!
Bill Weech has dabbled in competitive cycling, diplomacy, genealogy, and parenting. His current volunteer activities include conducting classes at Fairfax County jail, visiting hospice patients, serving as a crisis counselor, helping immigrants learn English, and teaching financial management to teenagers. Prior to retirement, Bill was a leadership trainer, management consultant, and executive coach. His stories are based on his life experiences as he remembers them, which may differ from how others recall the same events.

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Crazy 8s: 8 stories, 8 minutes each

The Auld Shebeen (DOWNSTAIRS)

3971 Chain Bridge Rd., Fairfax, VA 22030

May 25, 2019

6:00 PM Doors Open/7:00 PM Show

Full drink and dinner menu available for purchase

Seating is on a first come, first served basis

$15 at the Door (Cash Preferred)

$12 Advance Tickets at bettersaidthandone.com/storytelling-shows/

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Storyteller Spotlight: Alison Hughes

Storyteller Alison HughesAlison Hughes is a high school English teacher who loves reading, writing, listening to other people’s stories, and, when she can overcome her massive stage fright, telling her own. She’s told with Better Said Than Done since 2015 and is excited to return to the stage for this show. 

Watch a video of Alison’s true, personal storytelling here

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Crazy 8s: 8 stories, 8 minutes each

The Auld Shebeen (DOWNSTAIRS)

3971 Chain Bridge Rd., Fairfax, VA 22030

May 25, 2019

6:00 PM Doors Open/7:00 PM Show

Full drink and dinner menu available for purchase

Seating is on a first come, first served basis

$15 at the Door (Cash Preferred)

$12 Advance Tickets at bettersaidthandone.com/storytelling-shows/

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