Fall for the Book Festival 2015

Better Said Than Done storytelling was honored to join the cast of literary greats for the third year in a row at George Mason University’s Fall for the Book festival, in Fairfax, VA. This year, as in years past, we hosted a panel discussion on storytelling as well as a storytelling show.storytelling panel discussion

This year’s panel, which was titled “The Art and Truth of Storytelling,” was moderated by Shawn Westfall, of Unified Scene Theater fame.
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Return panelists included Better Said Than Done founder Jessica Piscitelli Robinson as well as regular storyteller David Supley Foxworth.

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storytellerThe panel also included a longtime Improv artist, and new storyteller, Liezel Sangalan Munson.

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Topics of discussion included:
How much truth is there in our storytelling? – Lots. Our stories are “true” after all.
Can good storytelling be taught? – Yes! Take one of our storytelling workshops!
Can storytelling inform other forms of writing, such as memoir writing? – Yup!
Do Improv and storytelling work together? – They most definitely do and will, in fact, be sharing the stage at our October show!

After having such a wonderful time at the panel, a group of Better Said Than Done storytellers shared their true, personal stories at our storytelling show. This month’s theme? Six Degrees of Kevin Bacon.
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Storytelling Workshops Offered in October

chalkboard2This October, we are offering all three of our storytelling workshops. Register now to learn the art of storytelling, whether your interest is for business, the stage, or everyday life. Select workshops start next week!

Your Business Story: crafting your company tale
Wednesday, October 7
11:00 AM-3:30 PM
Reston (address provided upon paid registration)
$75
A half-day workshop focused on how to write a compelling story to use as content for a website, brochure, elevator pitch, or more.

Take the Stage: storytelling for performance
Wednesdays, October 7, 14, and 21
7-9 PM
Reston (address provided upon paid registration)
$199
During our series of three classes, we will delve into the elements, tools, and skills  critical to developing and performing an engaging true, personal story on stage. We will cover character development and story structure; methods to enhance your story with drama, humor, and more; and performance tips and techniques. Throughout the three weeks, each participant will work on developing and fine-tuning one story, using what we discuss in each session to revise it for the next, and, ultimately, for the stage.

Spotlight on You: telling the story of your life
Sunday, October 11
11 AM-3:30 PM
Reston (address provided upon paid registration)
$75
A half-day workshop teaching structure, character building, and how to win over the audience. For storytellers of all levels.

Better Said Than Done also offers one-on-one storytelling coaching and onsite storytelling seminars customized for your group. For more details, contact us at jessica@bettersaidthandone.com.

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Storytelling in Reston

Better Said Than Done Storytelling

The Better Said Than Done storytellers were smoking hot at the Walker Nature Center fundraiser and storytelling show. Not only did we raise close to $600 in support of Friends of Reston for Community projects, we also told some pretty awesome stories.

If you missed the night of true, personal storytelling, entitled “Where There’s Smoke, There’s Fire,” you’re in luck because we have some videos of the night’s lineup of storytellers. Check them out below.

If you did miss this show, it’s okay, we forgive you – just don’t do it again!

Our next storytelling show is Wednesday September 30th at The Auld Shebeen. The show, titled “Six Degrees of Kevin Bacon,” is free, as part of George Mason University’s Fall for the Book Festival!

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Two Free Storytelling Events

This week, we ushered in the arrival of autumn. And next week, we welcome Fall for the Book! Better Said Than Done is delighted to once again be participating in this annual literary festival. We hope to see you in Fairfax for these free events!

Panel Discussion: The Art and Truth of Storytelling
Join us in the audience and participate in the conversation about the art of storytelling with moderator Shawn Westfall and panelists Liezel Munson, Jessica Robinson, and David Supley Foxworth.

Tuesday, September 29, 2015
12:00 pm
Sandy Spring Bank Tent at Johnson Center Plaza
George Mason University’s Fairfax Campus

Six Degrees of Kevin Bacon
How are our storytellers connected to Kevin Bacon? Can they trace a path in fewer than six acquaintance links?

Join host Jessica Robinson and storytellers Jack Scheer, Mary Supley Foxworth, Shawn Westfall, and Zach Wilks for true, personal stories about, or near, Kevin Bacon.

Wednesday, September 30, 2015
7:00 PM (Doors open at 6:00 PM)
The Auld Shebeen – downstairs
3971 Chain Bridge Road, Fairfax, Virginia 22030

Full food and drink menu available for purchase at the show. Seating is first come, first served.

These are just two of the many events that will take place during the week-long, regional festival. Check out the full schedule for events for people of all ages, focused on fiction, poetry, non-fiction, publishing and more!

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Smoking Hot Storytelling

Better Said Than Done Storytelling

At “Where There’s Smoke, There’s Fire,” Better Said Than Done storytellers not only shared their smoking hot stories, they also raised nearly $600 for Friends of Reston for Community Projects. Better Said Than Done hosts at least one fundraiser a year. This was our ninth show for Friends of Reston. Looking forward to our 10th show in 2016.

Here are some photos from the night of true, personal storytelling.

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First time storyteller and storytelling workshop graduate Jack Pelarstorytelling workshop graduate

Miriam Nadelstoryteller Miriam Nadel

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Host and storyteller Jessica Robinsonstorytelling show

Richard Barrstoryteller

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Mike Kanestoryteller

The full cast of storytellers takes a bow.

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Our next storytelling show is Wednesday September 30th at The Auld Shebeen. The show, titled “Six Degrees of Kevin Bacon,” is free, as part of George Mason University’s Fall for the Book Festival!

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Stories in the Dust: A Storytelling Workshop at Burning Man

Burning Man is an experience, not an event.

In late August every year, over 70,000 people gravitate like moths to a flame, to the Black Rock City Desert (or “the playa”) in Nevada to be a part of this magical, eclectic, mind-blowing experience. Burning Man includes theme camps, art cars and mutant vehicles, electronic dance music, DJ’s, sculptures, interactive installations and people from different backgrounds, race, sexual identity, age, occupation, geography and more. Amidst all of this, we co-exist, build and create in some of the most oppressive conditions you can imagine: dust storms with up to 65mph winds, complete white-outs, over 100 degree temperatures during the day and as low as the 30’s at night. And sometimes even thunder, lightening, hail and snow. And most of us in tents of the non-fancy nature. Why on earth do we do this, one may ask? For me, it’s because Burning Man is a creative community of individuals who perpetually seek channels to express ourselves through, over and over again. And underlying this massive community and experience are the unifying 10 Principles of Burning Man, including one of my favorites Radical Self Expression: “Radical self-expression arises from the unique gifts of the individual. No one other than the individual or a collaborating group can determine its content. It is offered as a gift to others. In this spirit, the giver should respect the rights and liberties of the recipient.“

My belief is that any form of Radical Self Expression begins with a story. And the playa has a lot of stories. Perhaps as many stories as there are specks of dust. One might actually say that the playa is made up entirely of stories – channeled in the form of art cars, sculptures, installations and camps. Or told within campfires, cozy tents, in the middle of a dust storm, shouted loudly as EDM blasts from the closest art car, a random sofa in the middle of the desert, and some even right outside of a porta-potty. Some of these stories are shaped and formed while you are physically there because so much is happening to you that you have to share it with another person to make sense of it, and others are conjured up from your past as you find yourself talking to a stranger who offered you a cookie at Center Camp and reminds you of a moment you want to tell them about. So let me tell you my story.

I’ve just returned from my 5th time at Burning Man and twelve days of living in the desert in Black Rock City, Nevada. I just got back a few days ago and as with the other times I’ve gone – I’m dusty, exhausted and struggling to adjust back to the “default” world. A world where it’s odd to hug strangers on the street or flash a smile at the guy riding by on a bicycle. And one of the hardest things to return back from is a beautiful yet harsh realization I had on my first trip: the culture at Burning Man is simply a better way to exist. Period. It’s extremely hard to leave that wonderful place behind and adjust to regular life again. And for some reason, this year is especially hard on me.

But as with every year, one piece of the playa (among many) that I get to bring home with me is the stories I shared, created and heard while I was there. And also the workshop I held the day before burn night at my camp, 3SP (Third Space Place) called “Storytelling on the Playa”. If you are organized before the burn and spend the entire year planning for the next trip, like we do, you can submit events, workshops and activities to the “What, Where, When” guide. The Burning Man organization publishes thousands of pre-registered events so that participants have an activity guide immediately upon arrival. Everything from meditation, reiki, yoga, pickle eating contests. There are so many things competing for your attention including just hopping on your bike and seeing where the ride takes you. But since the economy is based on “gifting”, you take that leap, submit your event as a gift to participants, cross your fingers, and hope people will come. This was the second year our storytelling workshop made it into the guide.
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Bells will be ringing…

Alarm bells that is, at our next storytelling show, where you’ll hear about fiery situations, warning signs – that may or may not have been heeded, and near emergencies in true, personal stories from Richard Barr, Bill Burton, Catherine Calvin, Mike Kane, Miriam Nadel, Jack Pelar, Zach Wilks, and host Jessica Piscitelli Robinson.

bonfireWhere There’s Smoke, There’s Fire:
stories about things that simmer, burn, or inspire suspicion

Saturday, September 19, 2015
8:00 PM (Doors open at 7:30 PM)
Walker Nature Center
11450 Glade Drive, Reston, Virginia 20191

$15 per person (Buy your tickets now or at the door. Advance tickets are recommended due to limited seating.)

Snacks and drinks (beer, wine, and soft drinks) will be available for purchase.

All proceeds from this show benefit Friends of Reston, whose projects include camp scholarships, green building initiatives, environmental education, and the restoration of natural areas.

We are happy to welcome Jack, our first-time teller and a student of one of our recent storytelling workshops, to the stage. In our workshops, you can learn to tell your personal stories, how to use storytelling for your business or organization, or prepare to join us on stage! If you’re ready to be in an upcoming show, contact us to be a first-time teller.

And don’t miss our other shows this fall:

Six Degrees of Kevin Bacon: true stories about or near Kevin Bacon
presented in conjunction with Fall for the Book
September 30, 7:00 PM, The Auld Shebeen, 3971 Chain Bridge Road, Fairfax, Virginia (downstairs), free

A Night at the Improv, Part 2
Bringing improv and storytelling to the stage together!
Better Said Than Done with improv troupe Plead the Fifth
October 24, 7:00 PM, The Auld Shebeen, 3971 Chain Bridge Road, Fairfax, Virginia (downstairs), $10 per person

Overheard: stories of eavesdropping and things you weren’t supposed to hear
November 28, 7:00 PM, The Auld Shebeen, 3971 Chain Bridge Road, Fairfax, Virginia (downstairs), $10 per person

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Have I got a story for you?!

Mary Supley FoxworthI have always been shy. When I was a small child, I would turn my head to avoid the gaze of a stranger. If they made the mistake of persisting with a friendly gesture or introduction, my response was to hide or burst into tears. It’s possible I gave a couple of people who were guests at my family’s dinner table a complex.

As an adult, I don’t hide from strangers, and I promise if you come over and say hello at a storytelling show, I will not start crying. I’m aware of and make an effort to overcome my shyness, though making small talk on occasion falls between “chore” and “bane of my existence”. People who have only recently met me are sometimes surprised that I describe myself as shy because I enjoy performing and have worked in communications for two decades. I do enjoy those activities – performing and work – but they also provide a structure for me to relate to others, which I find helpful when getting to know someone. (And then, once I know you, trust me, I have plenty to say.)

That is exactly what storytelling does, too – it provides a structure for sharing our experiences, whether personal or professional.

Better Said Than Done offers a variety of workshops to teach the art of creating and telling a true, personal story. Read about our upcoming workshops below and then sign up to learn how to put storytelling to use whether your goal is to get people excited about your business, jump on stage, or simply tell a good story in your everyday life.

(All workshops listed below will be held in Reston; exact address will be provided upon paid registration.)

Your Business Story: crafting your company tale
11 AM-3:30 PM, September 18, $75
A half-day workshop focused on how to write a compelling story to use as content for a website, brochure, elevator pitch, or more. Motivate volunteers for your cause, move prospects to sign on as clients, and convince investors yours is the right business by telling your story. Designed for small teams or solo-preneurs.

For organizations with larger teams (including employees, partners, members, and/or volunteers) or specific needs or concerns , Better Said Than Done offers private, specialized onsite or online workshops and presentations.

Take the Stage: storytelling for performance
7-9 PM, October 7, 14, and 21, $199
Three-week series of classes delving into the elements, tools, and skills of storytelling critical to developing and performing an engaging true, personal story on stage.

We will cover main and secondary character development and story structure; methods to enhance your story with dialogue, drama, humor, and more; and performance tips and techniques. Throughout the three weeks, each participant will work on developing and fine-tuning one story, using what we discuss each session to revise it for the next, and, ultimately, for the stage.

Spotlight on You: telling the story of your life
11 AM-3:30 PM, October 11, $75
A half-day workshop teaching structure, character building, and how to win over the audience. Participants should come with an idea for a story and will leave with a story ready to tell. For storytellers of all levels.

Better Said Than Done also offers one-on-one storytelling coaching. For more details, contact Jessica Piscitelli Robinson.

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Standup vs. Storytelling: Part Four | Delivery (Part One)

Standup-StorytellingSimilar to babies and pizza, much of the difference between standup and storytelling is in the delivery. Some differences are subtle, such as cash or credit being the preferred method of payment; some are substantial, like the difference between 18 hours of indigestion and 18 years of financial and emotional responsibility over another human being. But unlike pizza and babies, to which I have only been a spectator, I have a decent amount of experience in the delivery of both standup and storytelling.

The first part of your story’s delivery is something you have little to no control over; your introduction. You are at the mercy of whatever the emcee’s motives are, which are largely different in standup and storytelling. At Better Said Than Done, you are likely to be welcomed to the stage with a version of “This next performer is a third-time performer on the BSTD stage and the renowned author of Daddy Issues. Please give a warm welcome to Dustin Fisher.” It is very matter of fact and professional. This is a sharp contrast to standup, where you’re more likely to be brought up to the decidedly less formal “When this guy isn’t having sexual fantasies about the Muppets, he’s teaching his dog how to lick peanut butter off his balls – put it together for the man who put the bait in masturbation, Dustin Fisher.” The two sets have a much different feel already. It would be tough to walk on the stage after the latter and open with “I don’t remember the last Christmas I had with my father.”

The first decision you need to make when walking on the stage is what to do with the microphone. If you leave it in the stand, you are more free to gesture with your arms, but you’re stuck in one spot on the stage. If you take it out and hold it, you’re stuck with the mic in one of your hands, but you can move around. I was taught in standup that you should stand toward the back of the stage during the setup and come forward during the punchline of a joke. It’s a subtle, but effective cue to the audience that they’ve reached the punchline without having a rim shot. Also, stage movement gives the illusion of being more improvised. It tricks the crowd into thinking that you’re just a funny guy talking rather than a rehearsed performer doing material. This is a more common approach for standup performers, who usually like to connect with their audience through being seemingly less prepared. The less prepared one appears, the more naturally funny one appears when the material makes the audience laugh. While a decent approach in standup, this isn’t always the goal of storytelling. Even with humorous stories, the performer often wants to give credit to the story and preparation of it rather than their ability to wing it. For this reason, along with having one less thing to worry about, most storytellers leave the microphone in the stand.

Silence is also a much more welcomed effect in storytelling than standup. In standup, the performer MUST get up on stage before the applause after their introduction ends. They almost always will cut off the applause with a “Thank you, thank you, thank you. How’s everybody hanging tonight? Good? Good!” before they get into their set. Something to eat the potential silence. Standup is a party and even worse than puking on all the jackets at a party is silence. Conversely, storytelling uses silence as a cleanser. After the introduction, the performer will come up on stage and there will be a quiet period of time while the emcee adjusts the microphone stand. The audience will wait patiently through this process. In standup, the audience would start booing or worse, leaving.

At the Speakeasy, I actually incorporated the microphone stand adjustment into my routine by standing there as Amy Saidman would adjust it while I gave her the up and down commands with my hands, only to finally take it out at the end of all of her hard work. The audience laughed before I had even said a word. Amy has since grown wise and tired of being the butt of my joke, but it was fun to do for the three times it worked.

I’ve now managed to write an entire article about the difference in delivery before the performer has even said a word. Oops. If you want to see what the difference in delivery is once words start to come out, you’ll have to check back in a month. In the meantime, enjoy your pizza. Or baby, whichever you’re into.

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Dustin FisherDustin Fisher is an amateur stand-up comedian, award-winning storyteller, freelance writer and stay-at-home dad, all of which are just nicer ways of saying “unemployed.” You can follow along with him, his daughter Mabel, and his newborn son Morris as they learn how to raise each other at http://daddyneedsanap.com/.

His first memoir, Daddy Issues, is available in paperback, eBook, and Audiobook. Dustin has been published in the Huffington Post, The Good Men Project, Speakeasy DC blog, Baltimore Fishbowl, So Much Sports, Welter, Plorkology, and Baltimore STYLE Magazine

Dustin lives in New Carrollton, MD with his wife Jennifer, daughter Mabel, son Morris, and one too many cats.

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Screwy Storytelling Videos

In our July show at The Auld Shebeen in Fairfax, VA, “Screwed: stories of being screwed up, screwed over or just plain screwy,” the Better Said Than Done storytellers shared true, personal stories of getting screwed.

Anna Marie Trester hosted the show. She started the night off with this story of linguistic misunderstanding.

This story of a chance at revenge was Sandra Hull’s first storytelling appearance. She was previously a star pupil in our storytelling workshop!

Jack Scheer shared this story of a childhood dream of Christmas morning.

Kathy Stershic, also a graduate of our storytelling workshops, told this tale of the biggest screw over in life – homeownership.

Watch Ritija Gupta’s story of triathlon training.

Watch Richard Barr‘s take on the US educational system.

Experience the horror of being dragged from the comforts of Northern Virginia to the not quite so comforting plains of Nebraska with storytelling workshop leader Mary Supley Foxworth.

Jessica Piscitelli Robinson’s story detailed the ultimate screw – not being able to get screwed.

We are always looking to grow our pool of talented storytellers and there are so many of you out there. We have a 3 week “Take the Stage” workshop, taught by Mary Supley Foxworth, starting next Tuesday. Sign up today and join us on stage tomorrow. Read about our storytelling workshops here.

There is no August show, but you can catch Better Said Than Done storytelling shows twice in September. Check out our storytelling show schedule here.

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